Most bridegrooms put in a lot of time, effort, and money into selecting their wedding day attire. Not only that but careful thought also goes into what is to be worn at the bachelor party, shotgun ceremony, engagement party, reception party etc. Amid all this, a very important accessory that is totally forgotten about is the pagri (turban) and sera (decorative veil attached to the turban). Usually, it is left to the last day when one of the relatives or friends is requested to grab and get whichever pagri is available in the nearest wedding shop. It is only when the marriage photos come out that one realizes how mismatched the whole ensemble looked. Here are a few tips to select the perfect pagri and sehra.
Choose the right style
Decide beforehand what you want. Do you want your pagri in the Rajasthani bandhani style or a plain color? Or would you like your head gear to be in gold or silver? It’s good to have a choice but experiment with all the looks before you finally decide to buy one. If you have enough time at hand, you can also get it coordinated with your wedding attire. It is not essential to choose a heavy material. Even cotton, muslin or silk will do if the color goes well with your dress. Remember you are going to wear it for almost 5-6 hours so it better be comfortable.
Don’t just settle for what you’ve bought from the market. Try to think of what else can be done to complete your look. You can get the pagri embellished with a string of beads or an imitation brooch. A kalgi (a feather attached to a brooch) will look just perfect for the occasion.
Now for the sehra. It was traditionally used by royals to guard against the evil eye or buri Nazar. In the time it became a trend of sorts and now the bridegroom’s look is not considered complete without it. Choosing the right sehra is not a daunting task but some time must be invested to get one that is perfect for you.
First, decide whether you want to go for a sehra with strings of flowers, beads or one with plain gold and silver strings. The one with flowers will obviously be left for the last day, you don’t want to wear a veil of sagging buds. Next, try it on with the turban. It has to cover the right length of turban and your face. Once you have ascertained that the sehra is perfect for you also consider the fact that you have to wear it almost throughout the wedding. So weigh it in terms of comfort and convenience and how easy it will be for you to handle it.
Once you’ve chosen the pagri and sehra yourself, you will be surprised how confident you feel on your wedding day. So go ahead, put your best foot forward. Matrimony beckons!
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